Weekly Good thoughts

 





The Strangest Secret

(excerpt) by Earl Nightingale


     George Bernard Shaw said, “People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can’t find them, they make them.”
     Well, it’s pretty apparent, isn’t it?  And every person who discovered this believed (for a while) that he was the first one to work it out
. We become what we think about.
     Conversely, the person who has no goal, who doesn’t know where he/she is going, and whose thoughts must therefore be thoughts of confusion, anxiety and worry – their life becomes one of frustration, fear, anxiety and worry. And if they think about nothing… they become nothing.

     How does it work? Why do we become what we think about? Well, I’ll tell you how it works, as far as we know. To do this, I want to tell you about a situation that parallels the human mind.
     Suppose a farmer has some land, and it’s good, fertile land. The land gives the farmer a choice; he may plant in that land whatever he chooses. The land doesn’t care. It’s up to the farmer to make the decision.
     We’re comparing the human mind with the land because the mind, like the land, doesn’t care what you plant in it. It will return what you plant, but it doesn’t care what you plant.
     Now, let’s say that the farmer has two seeds in his hand- one is a seed of corn, the other is nightshade, a deadly poison. He digs two little holes in the earth and he plants both seeds - one corn, the other nightshade. He covers up the holes, waters and takes care of the land…and what will happen? Invariably, the land will return what was planted. As it’s written in the Bible,
 

                                       “As ye sow, so shall ye reap.”

Remember, the land doesn’t care. It will return poison in just as wonderful abundance as it will corn. So up come the two plants - one corn, one poison.


     The human mind is far more fertile, far more incredible and mysterious than the land, but it works the same way. It doesn’t care what we plant… success...or failure. A concrete, worthwhile goal…or confusion, misunderstanding, fear, anxiety and so on. But what we plant it must return to us.
     You see, the human mind is the last great unexplored continent on earth. It contains riches beyond our wildest dreams. It will return anything we want to plant.

      Not a lot that needs to be added to this. We as coaches sometimes get so wound up
in the "X's & O's" that we fail to address what we plant in that "fertile field" of our
player's minds.
     Also, as players, we often become obsessed with winning and our individual skills
that we forget to 'plant' those positive, self assuring thoughts  and 'self talk" that lead
to confident play on the floor.  Don't forget
the mental side of the game!
     Enjoy your summer. 
     It's OK to take an occasional break from your off-season training program. Spend time
with your family.  A mental change from the routine of training is refreshing - and then
you can get back to honing your skills and preparing your body for the season ahead with
renewed vigor.  The time will come when when Winter will ask:
                        "What were you doing last Summer?'

Have a great summer!  Plant those fertile fields!

Coach W.

 

 

 

 

last updated 07/22/07

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